When I was born some 38 years ago my parents were shocked! They thought for sure I was going to be a BOY and my name was going to be JOHN, named after my paternal-grandfather! Thus the dilemma of what to name Garo girl #3. The story goes that during my mom's WEEK LONG (are you kidding me...managed care 24 hours and you are out on your ear!), stay in the hospital the nurses were urging her to name her baby...they needed to write something besides Baby Garo on my birth certificate! One version of the "Name" is that the woman sharing my mom's hospital room said, "Why don't you name her Jonelle, it is the feminine form of John in French!" The other version, told by my Dad, is HE is the one who came up with my name. Which ever version you chose is your preference, but my name is still JONELLE. I didn't like my name much growing up...There were NO bicycle license plates, mugs,pencils, key chains, stickers, etc. with my name on them. The closest I ever came was a mug that simply read, "SUE" (this was the closest anyone ever got...since my MIDDLE name is SUZANNE!) Invariable the first day of school the teacher would call roll and say, "Suzanne?, Suzanne? SUZANNE? (of course I was ignoring this), or they would butcher my name so badly that I would just stare at them in disbelief. But as I got older I realized that my name was SO COOL...it is totally unique. I had never met ANYONE ELSE with my name. (until 1984 when the short-lived, night drama, BERINGERS came out and there was an actress named JONELLE!, oh, and one of the check-out girls at the Meat Market...) other than that, I was special! The problem was that EVERYONE, besides my family, either couldn't read my name, say my name or remember my name. And the problem was wide-spread! People at EVERY church I attended, professors at schools, people I babysat for, bosses, co-workers, Jane Seymour, etc...The day I was ordained, channel 24 came out to video the service and interview people in the congregation about how they felt about me becoming a Badveli (that's pastor in Armenian). I watched the news clip in horror as the congregant who was interviewed was going on and on about how much he and the others loved and respected, JANELLE!!! This has gone on my whole life and some of the variations are quite comical: Janelle & Jonette (both of which are beautiful names and the names of beautiful women in my Bible Study Fellowship group in Fresno, I love and miss you and all the GALS so much!!!), JOEnelle, Jonlynn, Jonlee, one good friend's mom called me JOELENE after the Dolly Parton song (she was from TN and just couldn't shake it!). Of course these names have not only caused great frustraion for me but tremendous entertainment for my family. Phil still calls me Joelene and those who really want to torment me (you KNOW WHO YOU ARE!!) call me Janelle. So why am I airing all my issues with people not knowing my name? It is NOT because I don't have a therapist here! It IS because I have found that ARMENIANS DON'T know my name EITHER!!! The Jonelle name problem is PANDEMIC!!! It usually goes something like this, "Ko anunit inch es?" (what is your name?) then I reply, "JOHN-L", "INCH?" (what?) "Jonelle", "Jana?" "Che" (No) "Jonelle, Hovanessoohee" (that literally is the feminine form of John), They laugh or look confused. On the phone it is hysterical. My one friend who calls at least once every two weeks. She is (I'm guessing) about 70 years old. Ring, Ring, I pick up and say, "Ah-Low", She says, "Ah-Low", "O-va?" (Hello, who is this?), "Yes, Jonelle em" (It's Jonelle), Louder, "O-va?!" "Yes, Jonelle em!" Yelling, "O-VA?!" "JONELLE!" Then I wait and she says, "Ah-LOW?!" As if she wants to start over and I will somehow Magically NOT be who I am. Some of my NEW names are Jana, Chanelle & Chano, but my favorite one has to be what my cousin Ashot called my by accident. Usually family and friends add Jan to the end of your name as a term of endearment. So Kalem is Kalem-jan, Nana is Nan-jan, and I usually am Jonelle-jan. But one day Ash called me Jon-Jan...and I told him...finally a Wrong name I actually like! So if you are reading this and you are one of the 10's of thousands who calls me JANELLE...this is your final warning. When you see me again Remember, MY NAME IS JONELLE or you can call me JON-JAN! : )
Wednesday, April 30, 2008
Monday, April 28, 2008
The Way It Is...
Last night I tried to make Madzoon for the second time. The reason I even tried to make it was because our cousin, Nana, said it was so easy and they always make theirs. She was teaching me one of her wonderful dessert creations when she pulled out a one-liter Rubbermaid container with the creamy white yogurt. I thought she said she added a small amount, "Achkee Chap" (that is literally measuring or sizing with your EYE!) of starter (which is just some yogurt or pre-made madzoon) to one liter of milk and put it in the fridge. Of course I tried to do this...and it was SO easy...and so WRONG! Then I went to the internet and read that you need to BOIL the milk first (yeah, yeah, so maybe you're smarter than me...) When I told her Saturday that my madzoon didn't come out she looked at me and said, "Jonelle-jan why don't you just buy it from the store it's so much easier?!"
Sunday, April 27, 2008
WHAT DO YOU THINK IS IN AN ARMENIAN WOMAN’S PURSE?
I KNOW WHAT'S IN AN ARMENIAN WOMAN'S PURSE…CANDY!!!!!
I LOVE CANDY. IN AREMENIA, ARMENIAN WOMEN CARRY CANDY IN THEIR
PURSE. TODAY, AT CHURCH FRANK WAS CRYING AND AN ARMENIAN WOMAN GOT
OUT HER PURSE AND GOT A CANDY OUT. THEN FRANK WAS CRYING AGAIN AND
ANOTHER WOMAN GAVE HIM ANOTHER CANDY AND HE WAS TRYING TO OPEN BOTH OF
THEM. DADDY TOOK THEM AWAY FROM HIM AND THEN DADDY HELD THEM AND THEN
DADDY GAVE THEM BACK TO FRANK. THEN AT THE END OF CHURCH ANOTHER
ARMENIAN WOMAN GAVE ME THREE CANDIES AND DADDY TOLD ME TO GIVE ONE TO
EACH OF THE BOYS. ONCE PETER HAD ALREADY GOT ONE, I THOUGHT I SHOULD
GIVE ONE TO PETER, SO HE WOULD HAVE TWO, AND THEN GIVE NONE TO FRANK
BECAUSE HE ALREADY HAD TWO. BUT DADDY STILL TOLD ME TO GIVE ONE TO
EACH OF MY BROTHERS. THEN MOMMY FOUND HER KLEENEX BAG THAT SHE HAD
DROPPED AND I GOT IT FOR HER. THEN WE LEFT CHURCH AND WENT HOME, HAD
LUNCH, THEN WENT AND WASHED OUR HANDS, THEN WE WENT UP TO BED. LOVE
JUDI!!!!!!
Friday, April 25, 2008
Let Kalem GO!
When we first began discussing our possible move to Armenia, many
family members and friends would make comments like, "Gee, do you
really want to move out of your house, store your belongings and move
to Armenia?" or "Why don't you just visit there and see if you really
would like to move there for a longer period of time." But the best
lines always came from my mom, Elaine and Kalem's Grandma Gertie!
They would say things like, "Why don't you and the kids stay here and
let Kalem go to Armenia, settle himself and then come get you?" or
"If Kalem loves Armenia so much let him go and you stay here with the
kids?" One time my mom got so crazy as to say, "You and Kalem go and
the kids can stay with me and Papa Phil!" I know everyone was
expressing their sadness at the thought of us leaving for such a long
period of time and the idea that the grandkids would be so far away
was/is pretty much unbearable at times. And yet we followed God's
call to come to Armenia to live and work and share His love with those
we meet. So now we find ourselves just getting settled into our house
(no thanks to Mrs. Serob : ), our neighborhood, life near our
relatives, school for the kids and now we are preparing to move into
the village (which will probably be June 1st now due to all the
delays). The thought of moving to the village brings excitement as
Kalem and the crews will begin the wonderful projects of making homes
livable for families in the area, but it also brings feelings of
sadness as we have to move from the place we were beginning to call
'home'. The teachers and staff at the Mangabardez love Jude, Pete, &
Franko so much that they have started a campaign to get us to stay
until June 15th when they will have a big party and celebrate all the
kids who are moving on to Tahbrotz (that's real school which beings in
1st grade). Every couple of days they ask/tell me that it is Judi's
graduation and she should be here to preform and celebrate with her
class. Each time the pressure is increased and each time I default by
saying, "I will talk with Kalem, but I'm pretty sure we will be in the
village by then." A few days ago went to pick up the kids and I sat
down with Jana-Moraqueet, Teacher Ida, and Serpoog. We had our usual
conversations about Frankies progress in the 'pampers' arena, Peter &
Judi's advancement with understanding and reciting the vast number of
poems in the Armenian arsenal, and how my day was. Of course we got
around to June 15 and the chorus began, "Judi has to
stay.......Finally Jana-Moraqueet said, "Chanelle-jan (oh, I will blog
soon about my many names....) Kalem quooghk gnah! Translation, "Let
KALEM GO!!!! It seems there is a repeating pattern in every
country...any thoughts on this? I'd love to hear them all! Geesher
Baree! (Good Night) Jonelle;)
Thursday, April 24, 2008
April 24th
Wednesday, April 23, 2008
Judi Is In Love!
When Kalem came home for dinner that night I wanted Judi to share her "news" with him so like any good Armenian mother I prompted her by saying, "Hey Jude, tell Daddy about your Special friends at school." She was off and running and pretty much used the exact same verbiage to explain her revelation to Kalem. Kalem listened intently and then began to grin from ear to ear; his fingers drumming methodically together. Then in an almost sinister laugh he mumbled loudly, "It's all coming together just as I planned!"
Needless to say when I informed the teachers that Jude had a thing for Dtavidt they dismissed me saying, "Amen achcheegner!" (All the girls love him!)
Now I refer to Dtavidt as my Pesa (son-in-law) and when Judi behaves unkindly to her brothers or does some disgusting thing I say to her, "Now would Dtavidt like a girl who is not nice like he is?" or some such silliness. Yesterday one such instance occurred; Judi sneezed...a disgustingly gross, dripping mess of a sneeze of which she caught on her fingertips---Now the rest of this is not for the faint of heart or those easily disgusted so if you read on and then want to make some comment like, "How could Jonelle write that..." or some such thing...Just know I have forewarned you. Let it be written! Let it be done! So of course part of the drippy, snotty mess lands on her fingers and without so much as batting an eye the finger went straight into her mouth. "GROOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOSSSSSSSSSSS!" was all I could manage and then I had to keep down my own gag reflex. I was so icked out that all I could think to say was, "Jude, do you think Dtavidt would like a girl who eats her chugklink (snot)?" The question actually caused her to stop and ponder and no more was said.
Today when I picked Jude, Pete, and Franko up from Mangabardez Judi says, "Guess what Mom? You'll never guess! Today Dtavidt was sitting in the corner....EATING HIS BOOGERS!!!, so I guess he really WILL like me!"
Do you see what poor parenting renders?! Just pray that Dtavidt is not the one God is calling her to or THEY BOTH LEAVE THEIR NOSES ALONE! Laugh all you want...just keep YOUR noses clean! Blessings love jonelle;)
Tuesday, April 22, 2008
Construction has begun!
Monday, April 21, 2008
Our Teachers!!
>This is Jemma & Vram!! They are two of our many Armenian Teachers here in Yerevan. Vram's Maternal Grandma, Knar, and Kalem's Paternal Grandpa, Pete were sister and brother. Knar was left in Armenia as a baby and raised here when the rest of the family moved out of Hyestan, and eventually to California, Los Angeles and then Papa Pete to Fowler, CA. (This is a tremendous story that we will try to write for y'all sometime!) So, Vram and Jemma...they may look sweet and nice with their twinkling eyes and full smiles, but underneath these happy expressions are COLD, HARD, DEMANDING, THREATENING, ARMENIAN LANGUAGE DRILL SERGEANTS!!! Our first lesson started out so nicely, the table was spread with a typical morning meal of hard boiled eggs, breads, preserves, butter, tarragon, juice...(actually the 1st Armenian meal of the day consists of Armenian Soorj and a cigarette!)...so we enjoyed these wonderful foods and then, and then...the table was cleared and they were down to business! Vram produced his "Lesson One" which was a booklet filled, page after page with numbers 1-1000, days of the week, the infinitive form of verbs, 1st & 2nd conjugations, the Present Continuous Tense, the Past Continuous Tense, personal pronouns, and 30 Homework sentences to memorize. He said that we needed to know all the information in the Lesson BEFORE our next class which was supposed to be TWO DAYS LATER!!! Needless to say this was a tad too much for me...Kalem, on the other hand had "STUDIED" with these teachers before and was used to their methods. The second lesson we went over previous material and for some reason Kalem wanted to go over letter sounds...oh, how I wish their was a Letter Factory Video in Eastern Armenian...I think I will market this and make millions...wait, nobody do this...it's my idea! So...in Armenian, as in English, there are some letters that sound very similar when you say them...one can only recall a phone conversation with a credit card company or a phone order where you had to spell your name or address and the like. It is not uncommon to say, "Bill, B-as in boy, I, L-as in lion...and so on. The difference I have noticed in Hyestan, is when you are asking for a letter people respond with the sound instead, ex. CAR, If I asked how to spell this I would want C-A-R, but I get Kh, AAH, RRRR....The problem is there are about 6 different SOUNDS that all SOUND THE SAME TO ME!!! For example they have 3 sounds for G, gh, gk, kg or for D, dt, td, ta...but in the spoken word it is so slight that unless your ear is well trained a lot of the sounds don't sound different at all. The best is when we try to say words and people look at us as if we are speaking...English or something..."Dram...which is money, is pronounced TDRAM and if you just said Dram THEY WOULD HAVE NO IDEA WHAT YOU ARE SAYING...then you try to add another word to help clarify like, POGHK and then they say, "OH, TDRAM!" I don't think I will ever tire of feeling like an idiot when I try to speak! Back to our lesson, Kalem wants to study his letters, so FROUGH JEMMA would give us a word and we would try to spell it...which would be followed by a cacophony of "TSK, TSK, TSK!!" from Jemma and then the exaggerated sounding out between the two VERY different letters, "Rruh, NOT Ruh!!!!" At one point she even had her ruler out and was whacking his knuckles! (I spotted the ruler in lesson one and subconsciously decided NEVER to sit close to Jemma lest I learn from my bruises and not my studying!) Good grief! But I will toil on because I do not want to live the old way of Armenian learning..."If you can't learn with your head you will learn with your backs and shoulders!" So enjoy your day, talk to many people and for GOODNESS SAKE....ENUNCIATE! Love Jonelle;)
Thursday, April 17, 2008
Spring in Armenia: Top Ten List
10. Trees and flowers blooming everywhere.
9. The smell of lilacs wafting through the open window!
8. Judi & Peter reciting poems about Garoon (Springtime).
7. Not so much long underwear!
6. Seeing Mt. Ararat in all it's majestic glory (one day!)
5. Lettuce Salads!!!! (Ga-bye Cabbage!!!)
4. "Grass" growing everywhere...it's really weeds that don't ever get mowed, but humor me!
3. Anticipation of Futbol! (That's soccer to those of you who are confused!)
2. The kids get to play outside at school.
1. It's April...which means I get to take a shower!!!!!
Wednesday, April 16, 2008
Our 1st CARE PACKAGE--BETTY YOU ROCK!!!!
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We were so excited to get the call. We had a care-package waiting for us at the Post Office! Here mail is not delivered to your house. The Post Office in your district telephones you and tells you to come and get your mail! This would sure cut down on all the junk mail we receive in the States! Perhaps we should lobby Congress for this "Pick-Up-Your-Own-Mail-Bill!"...I will start drafting this document very soon! Again, forgive the digression! This wonderful package came only 12 days after it was sent. As you can see it was filled with a wonderful assortment of useful and fun items for everyone in our family! And the best part is it came from BETTY GALLENDER! The coolest thing is that we Kazarian's, don't even know Betty! She is a friend of my dad's 2nd cousin Rowena Bowman. Apparently Rowena and Betty worked together at Coast Episcopal School in Long Beach! That's Long Beach, MISSISSIPPI!!!! We were blown away by her note..."Rowena sent me your blog and I have enjoyed reading about your experiences in Armenia...Upon reading your 1st blog I was moved to sent (the care package)...God Bless You and Keep You, Betty Gallender" We couldn't believe our Armenia blog was being read all the way in MS and then we thought about how cool it would be if we knew all the different places our blog is being read around the world. So, if you have figured out how to make a comment on the blog go ahead and leave your location! Your comments are awesome for us...it feels like we are having a dialogue with y'all! Besides that, I have decided that when our Armenia BOOK comes out...all your comments will be footnotes! So again we thank you BETTY for the WONDERFUL CARE PACKAGE...we have used and enjoyed it ALL!! We are so blessed by you and everyone of you who loves us, prays for us, emails, calls, and reads our blog!!! We love you! Jonelle;)
Monday, April 14, 2008
Judi's Best Lunch of ALL Time!
We looked at the table and saw three men, all sitting apart but in a fashion that would not allow the Kazarian gang to sit together. Seeing this the “sous chef” yells at one man, “Ackper, SHARJEH!” (Buddy/Brother MOVE!) Now I call that customer service! As we sat and waited the “executive chef” smoked two cigarettes OVER our cooking meat, and the gentleman next to me ordered a shot of vodka (which was in the refrigerator). The sous chef took a used shot glass that was left on the table, wiped it out with a handkerchief from his shirt pocket set it on the table and poured the fresh shot! We received our meal and ate with vigor. Kalem and I unfortunately added barbequed peppers to our lunch and our mouths were on fire! We finished our FantaÃ’, ordered another and a Tan (yogurt drink like buttermilk without the butter) just to put out the fire on our tongues. My eyes were tearing from the pepper, we were choking on the BBQ and cigarette smoke, and thinking about how UNSANITARY this experience was when Judi announces, “This is the best food I have ever eaten in my entire life!” I couldn’t stop laughing! ; ) jonelle
Saturday, April 12, 2008
Vie Frankie: Part 1
Frankie's sparkling eyes and winning smile took
Fast forward to Easter Sunday. Frankie is sitting on Kalem's lap in the 2 hour service and is getting into "nappy" mode. The fingers go into mouth and the sucking begins. A stocky, full-figured woman in her 60's with a long grey, knit one, purl two, sweater vest and curly salt & pepper hair turns around to stare at Frankie. As she turned her head Frankie turned his and their eyes locked. Now, I was sitting directly behind the woman so I can only relay Frankie's reactions to her. Apparently she scowled at him and then I saw her shake her finger at him. Frankie's eyebrows went up in surprise and then immediately fell and he pulled his wet digits out, holding them in mid air as if suspended in time. She faced front again and Frank held his stare at the back of her head. When he was relatively certain the danger had passed, the fingers were securely back in place. Moments later the woman on "Finger-Patrol" turned around again and again Frankie's fingers came out as if she had a string connected to him that she pulled with her disapproving look. This went on for about five minutes. Sometimes Frankie didn't even get a chance to land his fingers inside before she looked and the hand went down. At one point "Miss Grey Sweater Gestapo" turned and gave me the, 'I can't BELIEVE you let your child suck his fingers' look. I was a bit annoyed and was feeling like I should tell her, "The service is going on in FRONT of you, Pay attention to Jesus NOT FRANKIE!, but of course, I refrained!
Frankie still gets questioned, glared at, and man-handled but he goes right on sucking his fingers ; besides doesn't he look like he can hold his own with his "tough-guy" undershirt and crew-cut! Vie Frankie!
Tuesday, April 8, 2008
I Finally Got One
I got my first ticket today! This would be the fourth time I have
been pulled over since we have been here (almost two months now). I
didn't even care any more, I gladly pulled over at what I have come to
know as the ammunitions check point entering the city. I drive by
these police almost every other day, because my cousin Vram lives just
past their stake out, and ever time he says slow down and gets
nervous, and every time I slow down, even this time. Often they
already have cars stopped and are busy already, but not today, they
actually looked pretty bored, maybe even a little hungry. Maybe they
needed some cigarette money, maybe I looked guilty, maybe my glasses,
maybe because I had a flannel shirt on and not my black sweater. What
ever the case today was the day I would be fined for not wearing my
seatbelt!
My argument went something like this, "I didn't know, I am new here,"
that didn't work, so I tried, "some one told me I didn't have to wear
my seat belt in the city just out side of the city." That didn't work
either, and so he asked again, 5000 drams (about $16), he didn't care
about my international driving permit, or the fact that I spoke poor
Armenian, he wanted is 5000 drams. Maybe my Armenian is getting
better, maybe I am over confident with the police, who knows? Seeing
that was not getting anywhere with him I then asked, "Are you going to
write me a ticket then?" At this response he was a bit frustrated,
for this meant paper work, and I was slowing him down. Typically, the
driver barters a 5000 dram ticket price down to a 3000 dram bribe
which they quickly pay and are on their way again. Although this is
illegal now it is still a very much practiced way of dealing with the
situation. Since he was writing the ticket anyway, I had the option
to pay him now or at the police station, guess what he preferred?
So after an agonizing time of him trying to read the english spelling
of my some what Armenian name, he wrote the ticket, I signed, payed my
fine and was on my way again, with another great story.
Monday, April 7, 2008
What vodka can't fix CANDY can
Sunday, April 6, 2008
A Different Kind of Classroom
So, as you know we have been working diligently on our language
skills, Jonelle is learning through the shopping arena, and I through
toasts. Toasts in Armenia are more like toasts at weddings that last
5-10 minutes each, and can be the soul purpose for getting together.
They are more conversations, and detailed remembrances of the past,
than general well wishing we typically think of as toast at casual
gatherings. People drink in groups here and empty their glasses at
the same time, and there is always something said, the length of which
greatly depends on the amount of alcohol consumed. By alcohol I mean
Vodka, is there any thing else? Supermarkets have complete isles
dedicated to vodka, and small grocery stores ALL have vodka if nothing
else, $2-$3 for cheep average stuff, and the prices just go up from
there.
Glasses are fill almost immediately after they are emptied, A typical
toast would be, "This toast is for our (children, wives, relatives,
country, lives, etc)," then a further description of the topic,
clinking of glasses, then some one interrupting to either toast the
toaster, or tell some story. After which glasses are clinked together
again, and the toaster continues with his own story or commentary.
Finally, glasses are clinked again, and if the toaster is satisfied he
will drink followed by everyone else. Some major errors, all of which
I have made in the past, are drinking with out toasting, drinking
before the toast is actually finished, not drinking to a toast,
toasting before the senior member or host, swallowing improperly, not
finishing the entire shot, or not eating the customary bread sausage
or cheese immediately after the toast.
Toasts are generally hard for me to understand since they are
sketches of history that I am not always familiar with, compared to
practical conversations revolving around buying something, working on
a building project, or communicating some tangible piece of
information. I listen intently and try to make out as many words as
possible and weave together the meaning. As the toast wear on they
become simpler, and my comprehension improves, even before the end
when men are kissing each other and embracing. This along with broken
shot glasses, spilled bottles, and frequent calls from the wives,
usually signal the end of the evening.
Saturday, April 5, 2008
Basketball
I was a bit hesitant when I first received the invitation to play
basketball in Armenia: a) I didn't really expect to have opportunity
to play, b) I didn't bring the proper shoes, c) a very unscheduled
life for the first several weeks, d) the late hour (9-11 pm) e)
possible language barrier issues f) fear of re-injuring my knee (MCL
surgery '93 - rollerblades vs car, and then small piece of floating
meniscus '05 - basketball).
So, with a newly implemented family schedule, borrowed shoes, I
sucked up my language fears, and vowed to play carefully to protect my
knee. To my surprise, it was very similar to games with Jay
Khushigian at FAPC, with out the Bible study. English was the
predominate language used for the game, although there was a
surprising amount of Arabic, along with Western Armenian, Eastern
Armenian, and Russian.
Four on four half court, with evenly matched teams, was very fun,
although there were probably more fouls called than points scored.
Everyone was often reminded that it was supposed to be a "friendly
game." I tried to stay away from fouling and tried not to call any
fouls if I could help it. I did call foul, when someone's knee found
my rib cage and left me laid out gasping for air under the basket.
Some of my favorite statements from the game were: Directed at me,
"You're our best player, and our worst player (for not calling
fouls)." Then from my host to the 6'4" 250 pound player I was
guarding after discussing the 3 second rule in the key, "We will call
you Mashutka (public transportation van) number 45, and that (the key,
under the basket) is your parking spot.
So now two days later, every muscle in my body is completely sore, I
have blisters on my feet from oversized shoes, my ribs are bruised,
and I can't wait to go back next Thursday.
Friday, April 4, 2008
Mrs. Serob: The Last Battle
- She is cranky
- She sleeps until noon
- She doesn't want to hear kids making noise
- She's fat but doesn't seem think so
- She's annoyed
Thursday, April 3, 2008
The Khanoot
At about 12:30pm Kalem booms, "Jonelle, You REALLY Need To Go To The Store, now…SHNELL!" I think this is a common Kazarian tactic of throwing your loved ones into situations "to help them" or "for their own good" (am I correct Ron?)…it gets lost in the translation for me…I genteelly tried to explain the teaching method that is most beneficial to my learning. 1. Show me how to do it. 2. Do it but allow me to help. 3. Let me do it but help me if I need it. And FINALLY 4. I will do it on my own. Praise God Kalem heard my request and he benevolently backed up from Stage 4 all the way to Stage 3!
Tuesday, April 1, 2008
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Pretty Woman
One of my favorite movies of all time is the well-known-but-totally-UNBELIEVABLE-tale called Pretty Woman. There are countless quotable lines from the film and classic scenes but I, Jonelle Suzanne Garo Kazarian, got to live one of them this past week!!! No! I did not become a "Hye"-class call-girl in the Yerevan Garmeer Luz District, but I did get to go on a "Shopping Spree", of sorts. Recall the 1990 film when Julia Roberts tries to go out on Rodeo Drive with a fist full of money to buy some decent clothes? Well, since I am the conservative-pastor-missionary-(and don't forget) SUBMISSIVE wife; I packed pretty much as if I was going to a village in Armenia circa 1991! (note...this was the last time I was in Armenia and I was here for a missionary project!) This time around, if you recall, I was studying for my MFT exam and then deathly ill the two weeks prior to leaving the States. Needless to say my packing was LACKING!!! Obviously the saying is true, hind sight is 20/20 but I was batting a 20/200 in the suitcase department (note: this is the cutoff for legal blindness in the United States...that would be 6/60 in metric...but again I digress!) My clothes are tastefully baggie in the pants, overly loose and very plain in the tops, and my shoes are, well missionary-esk. PROBLEM GA! The women of Armenia, specifically HYASTAN are proverbial HOTTIES!!! The pants are oh-so-form fitting, the tops are BLING, and the Shoes...don't even get me started. Just picture 4 inch spike heels attached to any shoe, boot, sandal, etc...So plainly I REALLY stick out with my habit and sensible Aerosoles. So since I don't fit in and Kalem, aka Richard Gere wanted me to practice speaking Armenian to actual Armenian people instead of my computer screen; he took me to the "Iranian Faire". This is an "open-air-market" and I used OPEN-AIR extremely Loosely!!!! There is nothing open to this market, they are tightly jammed stalls winding up a slight grade for about 1/2 a mile with blue plastic tarp covering every access to the sky. The walkway is no more than 4 feet at it's widest point and the Iranian's don't even own the stalls anymore, but it is STILL called the Iranian Open Air Market...just work with me here. As we came to the street Kalem says to me, "Are you ready?" I looked and got the feeling of holding my breath as I jumped off the high-dive platform of an olympic pool! I mean it is all the excitement of the bartering challenges of Tijuana or Cabo without the needed attitude nor language skills! I loved making my way through the masses of people crammed in this serpentine highway of commerce. I watched ample sales women stuffing their celophane cash drawers INTO their bras, toothless peddlers of black-saltless sunflower seeds (which is crazy to me since even the coffee has SALT!! it really doesn't), and golden toothed smooth men offering their wares as the best on the pogotz (street). It was all well and good until Richard, I mean Kalem wanted me to talk! He taught me this phrase, "Ench Cahn Arjee?" How much does this cost? I was supposed to saunter up to these vendors ask how much something cost and then buy it for our household. Easy enough right?! WRONG!! Terribly WRONG!! It went something like this, "Nerets ek, Baron Ench Cahn Arjeh?" to which the man would look me up and down and THEN give me a price that was mumbled under his breath. I scrambled to try to hear the numbers and THEN to try to remember what number was in fact assigned to those verbal utterances....3 minutes later I am still standing there trying to cipher, he is staring at me like I have mental problems, and I end up saying, "Uh, Shanoragalootoon" and walking away. Richard was not happy with me! So he pushed me into a nice stall with women's jeans. A woman in her 50's and a young man about 19 were ready for us. I inquired about the jeans, she responded in ENGLISH!!! Do you see how I am not pulling of this-oh-yeah-I'm-a-local-thing?! We asked her to only speak Armenian and the fun began. I tried on 3 different pairs of jeans and with each one I came out to model, the 19 year old clad in black and Chips sunglasses would lean back in his chair and pitch his head over his left shoulder to offer his opinion. This was starting to be a good time. I liked one pair and the 19 year old another; Richard didn't care either way but the sales team was so approving of this new style for me that I was wrapped up in their spell...{Jeana is this what you do at Macy's?} So we bought the jeans promised to return when I needed another pair and were on our way. Just for fun and practice I asked another vendor how much her jeans were...THEY WERE LOWER!!!! You know how I love a bargain and you know crazy this made me, but Richard was loving my Armenian lesson of the day! And in case you are wondering...my jeans are so YEREVAN...so HOT!!! (especially for a MISSIONARY!) I am beginning to fit in...at least from the waist down...TOMORROW I BUY SHOES!!!!!